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Gay, Bisexual & Men Who Have Sex With Men (GBMSM)

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Sexual health service for gay, bisexual and men who have sex with men (GBMSM)

Our clinics offer a range of different services to support your sexual health and wellbeing including vaccination, PrEP and STI testing

We are confidential, inclusive and non-judgemental, and would welcome the chance to speak to you.

 

Sex and Relationships

A healthy sex life means something different to everyone. There is no set amount of sex you should have. Everyone’s libido is different.

Good sexual health requires regular STI testing and reducing risk by practicing safer sex. Regular testing will make sure STIs are quickly diagnosed and treated. You can get tested at a sexual health clinic. This is a confidential service and no one is told of your visit or what tests and treatment you receive.

If you have any concerns or changes, support is available and it’s always okay to ask for help.

For advice and support please visit the following websites

Sexual health for gay and bisexual men – NHS (www.nhs.uk)

Waverley Care – Sex and Relationships

Terrence Higgins Trust

LGBT Health

STIs and STI Testing

STIs are passed from person to person via bodily fluids such as vaginal fluids, semen (cum) and ejaculate and/or pre-ejaculate blood or even via genital to genital skin contact. Most do not survive for long on other surfaces but sex toys can also pass STIs from person to person. You can get some STIs from oral sex and some can affect your eyes.

How do I know if I have an STI

  • Discharge from the penis
  • Pain or burning when you pee
  • Pain or bleeding during sex
  • Itches, rashes, sores, lumps or blisters on genitals or near the back passage
  • Pain in the testicles

Some infections don’t have any symptoms, so if you have had sexual contact and not had a sexual health check up then get a check at your local sexual health clinic.

Good sexual health requires regular testing and practicing protected sex. Regular testing will make sure STIs are quickly diagnosed and treated. You can get tested at a sexual health clinic. This is a confidential service and no-one is told of your visit or what tests and treatment you receive.

 

PrEP

PrEP stands for Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis.

HIV PrEP is a medicine that stops you getting HIV. You don’t have to take PrEP every day for it to work. PrEP can be taken in different ways to suits your needs. Most people take PrEP as a small pill which is easy to take. Most people don’t get any side effects from PrEP pills.

See below for PrEP frequently asked questions.

PEPSE

Post-exposure prophylaxis after sexual exposure (PEPSE) is a treatment that can prevent HIV infection after the virus has entered a person’s body. Men who have sex with men are at high risk of HIV. This medication is often recommended if you are a man who has condomless sex with another man.

PEPSE should be taken as soon as possible, but it can be taken up to 72 hours after exposure. The earlier it is taken the more effective it is.

If you think you may have been exposed to HIV you can reduce your risk of becoming infected by taking post exposure prophylaxis (PEP) which is a short course of medication.

If you think you have been exposed to HIV you may be eligible for post-exposure prophylaxis after sexual exposure (PEPSE), a short course of medication which can reduce your risk of becoming infected.

Ayrshire and Arran’s sexual health services are continuing to provide PEPSE for sexual exposure to HIV. Please call us on 01294 323226. We will ask you some questions to find out if PEP is suitable for you and arrange an appointment if required.

If the sexual health department is closed please attend the Accident and Emergency department at;

  • University Hospital Crosshouse, Kilmarnock Rd, Crosshouse, Kilmarnock KA2 0BE or
  • University Hospital Ayr, Dalmellington Rd, Ayr KA6 6DX
  • Regular family doctors (GPs) do not prescribe PEP

HIV | NHS inform

Doxy PEP

DoxyPEP is a way of taking an antibiotic called doxycycline that can prevent you from getting syphilis and chlamydia. Click the links below for more information.

Patient information: DoxyPEP

DoxyPEP | Terrence Higgins Trust

DoxyPEP| NHS inform

Vaccinations for Gonorrhoea, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and Mpox

Vaccination; Gonorrhoea, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and Mpox

How can I get a vaccination?

In sexual health we do not offer vaccinations to everyone. The decision to offer you a vaccination depends on who you have sex with, your gender and age. We follow directions from the Scottish Government’s Chief Medical Officer.

Often you will be offered vaccinations as part of your appointment with us. We only offer vaccination in the sexual health department if you are at sexual risk of an STI.

You don’t have to accept any vaccination if you don’t think it’s right for you.

Vaccination to help protect against Gonorrhoea

The 4CMenB vaccine (usually used to reduce risk of meningococcal infection) has been shown to protect against gonorrhoea in around 30-40% of cases. The most effective protection is still consistent condom use.

The sexual health team will assess your risk when attending for prevention initiatives appointments such as PrEP and they will offer you vaccination against other STIs if you are eligible

Read more here: Vaccination to help protect against gonorrhoea | NHS inform

Leaflet: Protect yourself against gonorrhoea: Get the meningococcal B (Men B) vaccine

 

Hepatitis A and B vaccination

Hepatitis A infection is uncommon in the UK. The virus is spread in the faeces (poo) of an infected person.

The Hepatitis B virus is carried in blood, semen and vaginal fluids. One way it can be transferred is through sexual intercourse with an infected person without a condom.

Hepatitis vaccination is now offered to those who are eligible when attending sexual health for other appointments, for example PrEP.

Hepatitis B vaccine is now part of the childhood vaccination schedule. Only those born after 2017 will have received hepatitis B vaccination.

We usually give Hepatitis B vaccine in combination with Hepatitis A vaccine to reduce the number of injections you need to have.

If you are looking for a vaccination due to other reasons such as work or travel please visit the following website:  Vaccines – NHS Ayrshire & Arran (nhsaaa.net)

Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) vaccination

Infection with HPV makes you more likely to develop certain types of cancers and warts. HPV is spread through skin to skin contact; usually intimate sexual contact. One of the best ways to protect yourself from HPV infection is to get the vaccine.

The HPV vaccine is now available for men through sexual health clinics. If you are eligible when attending for an appointment we will offer you the vaccine. You have to be aged 45 years or under and sexually active with other men and not already had the vaccine or unsure if you have received this. Every young person in Scotland aged 11-13 is offered the HPV vaccine free of charge. Find out more here.

Mpox (monkeypox)

Mpox is a rare viral infection.  The risk of mpox in Scotland currently remains low. Anyone can get mpox. However, most recent cases across Europe and the UK have been among gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM). Tips on how to reduce your risk of infection can be found here. The sexual health team will assess your risk when attending appointments for other prevention initiatives such as PrEP and will offer you vaccination if you are eligible.

Condoms and Lube

Condoms are a useful method to prevent transmission of HIV and other STIs.

Lube is advised for anal sex to make sex more pleasurable and to prevent condoms breaking.

You can get condoms and lube for free at all sexual health services and a range of other places. Please visit our Ccard and Free Condoms page to find a distribution point, or order condoms by post.

You can also get free condoms by post from Terrence Higgin’s Trust’s Get Rubbered scheme.

1 in 6 men have had unwanted sexual experiences. This can include emotional manipulation, controlling behaviour, threats, financial control, or physical harm. Men may feel pressure to stay silent due to stigma, fear of not being believed, or concerns about appearing weak. It’s important to acknowledge that abuse can happen to anyone. This can cause problems, even many years later. You don’t have to just live with it. There are things you can do and people who can help.

Useful links:

ManKind Initiative – Supporting Male Victims of Domestic Abuse

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men | Men’s Advice Line UK

AMIS | Abused Men In Scotland

Rape Crisis Scotland | Working to end sexual violence

The Male Survivors Partnership

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